Another Business Book Told in Story Form

I recently came across The Imperfect Board Member, another in the growing collection of business books that are told in story or fable form.

Here’s how the publisher describes the book:

Using a fictional story followed by thorough analysis of the seven keys to great board governance and effectiveness, The Imperfect Board Member helps board members and CEOs work more effectively and avoid the problems that have plagued companies like Enron and WorldCom. The principal characters in the book represent three main categories of organizations — for-profit companies, non-profit organizations, and faith-based religious organizations. An entertaining page-turner that informs, educates, and motivates while conveying principles that will enable effective governance, the book reveals the Governance Effectiveness Model, describing seven easily understood keys that will help every CEO and board member unlock the door to effective boardroom leadership.

You can download the first chapter here.

Thank You, Readers

On Thanksgiving, I thank you, readers of A Storied Career. One of my goals this year was to revive this blog, blog every day, and build the audience. An average of about 100 readers a day visits A Storied Career, and I am so grateful for your support. Thanks also to all who have commented this year. This blog and its subject matter are among the aspects of my work that most stoke my passions and give me the greatest joy. Thank you for sharing with me.

My Story of a (Futile) Year of Trying to Reduce Waste

I have determined that I have spent an hour a week — so 52 hours over the last year — doing something that has not been at all effective.

Today is the one-year anniversary of this activity, and I have decided to stop.

It started a year ago when a colleague passed on information about a new Web site, Catalog Choice, where you could supposedly enter information about the catalogs you were receiving and Catalog Choice would take care of opting you out of them.

After a year, I have seen no appreciable drop in the number of catalogs my household receives. Catalog Choice has not delivered for a number of reasons (and probably many more that I’m not aware of). First, as one of Catalog Choice’s staff members (Chuck, I believe) noted in the site’s blog, “changing the practices of a $68 billion dollar industry takes time” (that industry being direct-marketing). Second, not all catalog mailers are participating in Catalog Choice. Of the 435 (!) catalogs I’ve attempted to opt-out of 173 vendors have confirmed their participation in Catalog Choice; 222 have neither confirmed nor said they weren’t participating; and 40 have said they are not participating.

Even among those that have said they are participating, I still get catalogs, even when I’ve reported multiple “violations.” One trick some vendors seem to engage in is changing customer numbers. Say I opt out of a catalog for which a certain customer number is assigned to my name. Many vendors theoretically stop sending catalogs to me at that customer number but simply assign me a new customer number and keep sending catalogs. Some vendors who say they participate in Catalog Choice don’t switch customer numbers but nevertheless keep sending catalogs when they’ve pledged not to.

I recently contacted the Sundance catalog people directly. I probably receive a Sundance catalog almost weekly and have faithfully entered the catalog info into catalog Choice each time. Catalog Choice has somewhat recently begun to provide direct links to vendors’ Web sites so one can contact these catalog purveyors directly to request not to receive catalogs. When I wrote to the Sundance folks, they claimed they had never received any requests from Catalog Choice to end my catalog mailings! Sundance might have been covering its posterior, but that claim certainly added to my sense of futility and the 52 hours I’ve wasted on Catalog Choice.

I will say that I have a greater sense of success since I have started to contact catalog mailers directly. I have had responses from most of them telling me they’re removing me from their catalog mailing lists. Whether the catalogs will really subside remains to be seen.

Some vendors have suggested I contact the Direct Marketing Association and have given me its Web and mailing addresses. But it’s unclear what I’m supposed to say to the DMA or what magic words might end my catalog mailings, and the DMA Web site is not remotely consumer-friendly.

Don’t get me wrong … I appreciate what Catalog Choice has been trying to do. I wonder if they knew how daunting it would be to get catalog mailers to cut back. And while I think the exercise of entering catalogs on Catalog Choice’s Web site is currently ineffective, it may not always be that way, and at least I have made some progress through the sites direct links to vendors.

So, on Thanksgiving, a day on which it’s not unusual to think of waste (all that potentially wasted food!), I have ceased to waste my time on Catalog Choice trying to reduce the waste of catalogs that make a short journey from our mailbox to the recycling bin.

What Do You Want Your Dying Story to Be? The Engage with Grace Project

I feel as though I write about death a lot in this blog, and if that’s true, it’s partly because our stories are such an important part of the legacy we leave behind.

My virtual friend Jessica Lipnack introduced me to the Engage with Grace project. The idea of the project is to get folks talking about what they would like the end of their lives to be like. Bloggers have been asked to blog about the project today, Nov. 26, and to introduce a plea (below) from project founder Alexandra Drane. This project is also a natural for A Storied Career because …

Engage with Grace begins with a story — a story about an extraordinary young woman named Rosaria Vandenberg who was 32 when she was diagnosed with stage IV glioblastoma … Read the full story.

The site also notes:

Who was it who said, “The death of a million is a statistic — the death of one is a story.”?

When your loved ones tell the story of your death, how would you like that story to be told? TELL THEM how by answering the five questions in Engage with Grace’s One Slide:


This post was written by Alexandra Drane and the Engage With Grace team:

We make choices throughout our lives — where we want to live, what types of activities will fill our days, with whom we spend our time. These choices are often a balance between our desires and our means, but at the end of the day, they are decisions made with intent. But when it comes to how we want to be treated at the end our lives, often we don’t express our intent or tell our loved ones about it.

This has real consequences. 73 percent of Americans would prefer to die at home, but up to 50 percent die in hospital. More than 80 percent of Californians say their loved ones “know exactly” or have a “good idea” of what their wishes would be if they were in a persistent coma, but only 50 percent say they’ve talked to them about their preferences.

But our end-of-life experiences are about a lot more than statistics. They’re about all of us. So the first thing we need to do is start talking. Engage With Grace: The One Slide Project was designed with one simple goal: to help get the conversation about end-of-life experience started.

The idea is simple: Create a tool to help get people talking. One Slide, with just five questions on it. Five questions designed to help get us talking with each other, with our loved ones, about our preferences. And we’re asking people to share this One Slide — wherever and whenever they can–at a presentation, at dinner, at their book club. Just One Slide, just five questions.

Let’s start a global discussion that, until now, most of us haven’t had.

Here is what we are asking you: Download The One Slide and share it at any opportunity — with colleagues, family, friends. Think of the slide as currency and donate just two minutes whenever you can. Commit to being able to answer these five questions about the end of life experience for yourself and for your loved ones. Then commit to helping others do the same. Get this conversation started.

Let’s start a viral movement driven by the change we as individuals can effect…and the incredibly positive impact we could have collectively. Help ensure that all of us — and the people we care for — can end our lives in the same purposeful way we live them.

Just One Slide, just one goal. Think of the enormous difference we can make together.

To learn more please click here.

The project was featured in today’s Boston Globe.

Recent Discoveries: Storytelling Tools and Venues

Opportunities for folks to tell their stories on the Internet appear endless. I discover new ones at least weekly. Here are a few recent finds, most of which also appear on my sidebar (descriptions are in the words of the originators):

VUVOX is an easy to use production and instant sharing service that allows you to mix, create and blend your personal media — video, photos and music into rich personal expressions. VUVOX reflects your life. … We want to help you amplify your own visual voice. … VUVOX gives you the power to create one-of-a-kind stories in an instant. All you need to do is provide whatever cool content that you have. Take pictures, video, audio and text. Mix it up. Choose backgrounds, colors, textures that create your vibe and then you are ready to share your piece with the world. … We are passionate people who crave creative expression and value storytelling as an essential part of every day life. We are committed to making the whole world a better place by enabling you to tell the stories that need to be told… just because they are yours to tell. … VUVOX founders have created this foundation with your story in mind.

MemoryMiner is a new application developed by GroupSmarts… MemoryMiner represents the first step toward a long-term goal: the creation of the world’s most extensive network of first-person accounts of modern society and culture. … Everyone has a story. We at GroupSmarts are committed to bringing those unheard, and unseen, stories to life with MemoryMiner. Many of the most interesting records of modern society and culture exist in analog form, “trapped” in boxes of old photos, letters and the like. … we hope that MemoryMiner will be widely used to bring these materials, and more importantly, the stories that can be told from them, into the networked, digital world. Similarly, just as old photographs and documents contain the seeds of fascinating untold stories, so too do many of the millions of digital photographs that are taken every day. So many people are experiencing and doing interesting and even amazing things with their lives, yet their stories remain untold … While there are plenty of tools for “managing” digital media, there is a real need to link media in meaningful ways, using an easy to grasp “People, Places and Times” structure. We hope that MemoryMiner will expedite that process and contribute to bringing the experience of digital storytelling and publishing to all.

Storychasers is a multi-state (and potentially multi-national) educational collaborative empowering students and teachers to responsibly record and share stories of local, regional and global interest as citizen journalists.
Where STN (Student Television Network) participants may focus more narrowly on student broadcast news productions, Storychasers has a broader focus on not only student-created news broadcasts, but also student-created documentary films and live event coverage (webcasting). Storychaser media productions can be shared as live broadcast events or recorded, asynchronously shared audio and video files.

OK, the origins of this next one fascinated me. The founders of the storytlr initiative say they were inspired by a video from Loic Lemeur who asked about a way to help him build “the centralized me.”
As he explains in the video below (and also in this blog entry, which also shows a picture of Lemeur’s social map), he drew considerable attention by creating a social map of his online existence — all the venues he visits in the course of a typical day online to get his news, see what his friends are up to, and share his own life. But Lemeur longs for a centralized place where he can get all his social media at once (and he mentions services, such as FriendFeed, that are getting close to what he desires). The venue Lemeur craves reminds me a bit of my Social Media Resume, which does not yet really function the way Lemeur imagines, but has the potential (in my opinion). The folks at storytlr believe they’ve created such a venue. “Storytlr brings you just that, a platform to build the centralized you…,” they write. Then, they noticed the narrative quality of their platform:

Finally we realized that our flow of [social media self-expression was] in fact telling a story, the story of our daily lives, and that sometimes we wanted to repackage this story in a nice format (beyond a photo album) to share it with friends. So we decided to make it really easy to mashup all these activities into a compelling story that is easy to share.

I think storytlr is a fairly cool tool, as illustrated by the featured story on the site (and I created a kind of storyboarded timeline of my Twitter tweets using storytlr — but I’m not sure the platform does what Lemeur hopes for.

Fittingly, the founders of my next find, Great Life Stories, explain their existence with a story:

Each of our founders had close relatives have near-death experiences or pass away in a … 2-3 month window of time. As a consequence of these events, occurring so close together…, we realized that time was short and that our parents and grandparents were transitioning into the last phase of their lives. … It was imperative that we begin the process of saving our parent’s accomplishments, our childhoods, and our family histories. We all agreed that there was much that we could do to capture our parents’ stories and experience so we could share them with our children, grandchildren, and future generations. … we expected that many of our ancestors shared common experiences around major worldwide events: The Great Depression, WW II, the Korean and Vietnam wars. What we discovered was that not only did people go through similar experiences around wars or economic events, they also shared common family experiences: a first date, a first job, a first child. … These common themes gave us an opportunity to share these similarities [among] different story tellers. One person’s life was linked to others through their experience in unexpected ways. Once these common experiences were connected, storytellers could enjoy reading each other’s stories and the community was born.

Finally, Winamop, the lowest tech of these discoveries. Winamop’s focus seems to be largely on writing, and it covers Poetry, Comedy, News, Art, Shakespeare, Music, and of course, Stories. I glanced at a few of the stories in the Stories section, and I can’t quite tell if these are fiction/creative-writing type stories or people’s real stories, or a combination. No matter to a story fan. Winamop’s founder writes:

Winamop was conceived on a whim, is run on a shoestring, ignored by the many, loved by the few and has continued unabashed since 2003.

What I really want to know is where the heck the name Winamop came from. Here’s the explanation:

I was going to Winamp’s web-site and my fat finger must have caught the “O” key as I went for the “P”. I got Winamop.com, or rather I didn’t, because it didn’t exist! It made me laugh to see the pathetic lament from IE that it “couldn’t find winamop.com” and I went and registered it.

I like the home page’s tagline: Read Baby Read.

Q&A with a Story Guru: Sharon Benjamin

It’s a great privilege to present the 16th in my series of Q&A interviews with story practitioners. I first met Sharon Benjamin in … ahem … the ladies room of the S. Dillon Ripley Center at the Smithsonian in 2005. I was eager to meet her because she and I both earned our PhDs from Union Institute & University. It was through Sharon’s contribution to a Union online discussion group that I first learned of the Smithsonian Storytelling Weekend and the wonderful Washington, DC, Golden Fleece group that has done so much to nurture my storytelling passion. I owe her a lot. See Sharon’s bio below next to her photo.

From the Web site of her consulting firm, Alchemy:
Alchemy principal Sharon Benjamin has built her consulting practice on the foundation of her deep experience leading and working for nonprofits as both a staff person and volunteer. Benjamin has raised more than $75 million for nonprofits since 1980.

Between 1985 and 1989, she was the Vice President for Development and Finance at the Environmental Policy Institute (EPI). When she arrived, this $1 million organization had a bank loan of $450,000 to cover operating losses, and was holding another $500,000 in soft debt (monies owed to staff and creditors). When she left at the end of 1989, EPI had an operating budget of $3.8 million, no debts and a reserve fund of $500,000.

In January 1990, she joined the staff of the Union of Concerned Scientists (UCS). Her task was to create a foundation giving program. Within 16 months foundation support for UCS had increased from $250,000 to $1.4 million.

At Rails-to-Trails Conservancy (RTC), Benjamin oversaw a 10-person Marketing Department. During her 3.5-year tenure at RTC, organizational revenues increased by an average of 18 percent per year, to a record budget of $5.2 million. Membership increased by a yearly average of 15 percent, to an all-time high of 71,000 individuals. During this time RTC sold over 50,000 copies of organizational publications.

She has organized 35 major special events including the participation of Friends of the Earth in the Paul McCartney Concert Tour of 1989-90; film premieres; major donor trips and receptions; foundation and corporate briefings; and a bluegrass concert at the Lincoln Memorial. Read more here.


Q&A with Sharon Benjamin:

Q: What’s your favorite story about a transformation that came about through a story or storytelling act?

A: One of my favorite transformative moments — when story was key to transforming a group — came in a group of storytellers.

Golden Fleece, a DC-based group of people interested in narrative in organizational settings, used to meet once a month, for an in-person conversation about uses and applications of narrative – it was an interesting, interested group, and extremely diverse – held together almost solely by a topical interest in story. Many people in the group didn’t know (m)any others – there were times when it was clear that the group was having trouble navigating between its many roles — was it an “Association of Organizational Storytellers” a ‘community of storytellers” or all of these things at different times for different reasons……these were rich questions that many of us discussed, contemplated, and navigated………

Anyway, one night, Kelly Cresap, was facilitating and asked the group to think about a time when “they got unstuck” then tell that story (in triads) to one another. After a couple rounds of sharing, it was clear that something big was shifting in the group – Kelly closed the evening by having 3 or 4 people – chosen by the group (re)tell their story to the full group – and in the hush of the circle – looking around at the expectant, rapt faces of both the listeners and tellers, it became so clear that the shift in the group was enormous – from the professional body armor many of us came in wearing, to the emergence of wonder and heart.

The whole session didn’t last more than three hours, and yet, hearing tales of derring do (of the heart, mind and body) in how people got themselves unstuck created a lovely spirit of recognition and learning and authentic camaraderie in that space.

Q: If you could share just one piece of advice or wisdom about story/storytelling/narrative with readers, what would it be?

A: We have to do our own inner work with sufficient aerobic exertion that our own hearts are growing and deepening…because the danger in working with narrative is that we run the risk of, as David Whyte says “reenacting ourselves.” Telling stories in organizational settings (for transformation, change, learning, etc) requires some structure and has does have an inner logic — maybe I should say there are “liberating structures” to using narrative……….and knowing those requires practice and mindfulness – and in developing this mastery the risk is that we can become glib or rote – and the power of story – especially in organizational settings, is directly correlated with our ability to be vulnerable.

So, doing our own inner work is a prerequisite – just as is practice in using of story forms and structure.

Q: Your web site states that the true mark of distinction of your consultancy is “its ability to understand and broker changes at multiple levels, cognitive, emotional, and behavioral in organizations.” To what extent and in what ways do you use storytelling in that process?

A: Stories end up connecting our external experience to our inner sense-making – so, during times of organizational change – which are usually high stress and full of ambiguity with diverse interpretations of what’s happening – stories can provide both opportunities for “norming” the group’s story and, at the same time, expanding the diversity of interpretation of external events – all at the same time.

A: Most of your experience is in nonprofits. What differences do you see in the ways nonprofits and for-profit organizations are or can be using storytelling?

A: Well, in the case of nonprofit organizations that have to raise money, I think there are fierce market forces that require [them] to be pretty good at telling stories that create a compelling vision of a better future……..if the organization can’t tell these kinds of compelling stories it eventually runs into problems raising money, so, I’d say that narrative competence is a basic prerequisite for organizational survival…….

On the other hand, in nonprofit organizations I’ve worked with, seem to have more trouble remembering to use story in-house with boards and staff. Maybe our mindfulness isn’t there, or maybe it’s not as comfortable – story does require a level of vulnerability that may feel riskier with close-in colleagues, rather than telling stories about our work and organizations to funders, donors and the public.

Or maybe we just don’t spend as much time working on our internal use of story as we do telling stories outside the organization.

Generally, compared to corporate or governmental organizations, I’d say many NPOs are advantaged when it comes to external storytelling but maybe a little behind in using story internally.

When Survivors Are Compelled to Tell Stories of the Departed

Heather Summerhayes Cariou made a promise to her sister, Pam, that she would tell Pam’s story after she died.

The result was the book, Sixtyfive Roses. The accompanying Web site tells more:

Heather’s sister Pam was diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis at the age of four and given only a short time to live. Heather promised to die with her sister, but as Pam fought the limits of her prognosis, she instead taught Heather how to live. “Sixtyfive Roses” is the way Pam pronounced the disease that altered the lives of her siblings and parents, who in turn helped alter the community’s response to the disease by founding the Canadian Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.

How many causes have been advanced, how many diseases have been researched, how many cures are closer to being found, because victims and survivors have told their stories?

A sisterly storytelling similar to Sixtyfive Roses is Nancy G. Brinker’s telling of her sister Susan G. Komen’s story of living and dying with breast cancer, which resulted in more than a billion dollars raised for breast cancer through Susan G. Komen for the CureĀ®.

I think of the famous — Christopher Reeve telling his quadriplegia story to promote spinal-injury research, Michael J. Fox’s Parkinson’s disease story raising millions to research that illness — and the less famous like Pam and Susan.

Once again, the power of story generates progress, compassion, and involvement in attacking society’s ills.

Where Were You on This Day in History? We All Remember Our Stories

I cannot think of Nov. 22 without remembering JFK’s assassination. Nov. 22 means nothing to my husband because he was born in 1960 and has no memory of JFK’s death in 1963 (I imagine President-elect Obama, born in 1961, also has no memory of this day).

But history is full of days like this. Where were you when Pearl Harbor was attacked (before my time)? Where were you when the Challenger space shuttle blew up? Where were you on 9-11-2001?

And we all have events that might not seem as momentous in the panorama of history but are personally meaningful or shattering. Where were you when John Lennon was murdered? What were you doing when Princess Diana was killed?

Our stories of these events bind us together as a people as we recall the common experience of national and human tragedy. Interestingly, it’s harder to recall stories of events that reflect national joy. Perhaps great Olympic victories that stoke national pride, such as Michael Phelps’ record-breaking 8 gold medals this year? For me, Nov. 4, 2008, provides joyful stories that I will recall for the rest of my life.

What stories do you recall that are prompted by the historical experiences you lived through?

Q&A with a Storytelling Guru: Ardath Albee, Part 5

See Ardath’s bio, photo, and Part 1 of this Q&A, Part 2, Part 3, and Part 4.


Q&A with Ardath Albee (Question 7):

Q: Can you talk a bit about how story generates active relationships with customers?

A: People want to have relationships with people “like” them. To generate active relationships, stories must be told from an almost peer-to-peer perspective. That said, the other ingredient is value. Stories must first be relatable and then add value that’s relevant to the person you’re telling the story to.

This is the biggest argument for segmentation and getting to know your customers. People are interested in different aspects of the story based on their relationship to the subject matter. For example, a CIO will have different interests than a VP of Sales. Telling the same story to both of them is not likely to have the impact you want. You’ll either make your story so general it doesn’t interest either of them, or it will focus more heavily on the interests of one or the other.

Additionally, it’s important to remember that to remain relevant your stories must evolve over time. Just as versions of fairytales have been updated to resonate in today’s world, your stories must do so. Changes happen fast, priorities are shuffled with the latest quarterly results, so you must pay attention and continuously adjust and tune your stories to build engagement with existing and potential customers.