Q&A with a Story Guru: Lori Silverman, Part 4

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Q&A with Lori Silverman, Question 4

Q: If you could share just 1 piece of advice or wisdom about story/storytelling/narrative/working with stories with readers, what would it be?

A: We’ve overlooked a critical fundamental concept in the field of story work.

All story is narrative. However, not all narrative is a story. It’s extremely important to be able to distinguish between a story and all other forms of narrative (e.g., case studies, examples, profiles, news reports, etc.). Without this, you may invest money in a story-based initiative that will not provide the level of payback your organization desires. (These distinctions are brought forward in the piece, “Narrative Forms”).

There are specific qualities that are integral to stories: They need to have a plot (a conflict), characters, dialogue (preferably both internal and external), a universal theme (key point that applies to all who hear, experience or read it), drama/intrigue, contrast, and sensory information (the ability to paint a picture in the mind’s eye). To use the word “story” for narrative forms that do not have these elements is misleading — and it causes a huge problem in the field: It waters down the meaning of the word, “story.” The consequence of this is that many organizations do not think they need internal or external “experts” in the field of story work to help them with their story-based initiatives.

Overlooked Cover-Letter Study May Support Storytelling in the Job Search

I recently rediscovered an academic journal article that I had first encountered in 2006. Though I had never seen any buzz or media attention to the study behind the article, I found it rather significant.

The article described a case study of a single job applicant. This job-seeker had electronically submitted applications for 27 vacancies back in 2005. The candidate submitted nine with no cover letter, nine with a one-sentence cover note. Finally, she submitted nine with a cover letter.

Author Sam H. DeKay reported that “no application submitted without a cover letter or just the one-sentence cover note received a response. However, all nine application forwarded with cover letters resulted in invitations to interviews,” one of which resulted in a job offer.

Slightly complicating this study is the fact that the subject created two styles of cover letter. Apparently no differences occurred in employer reaction to these two different styles. Th author claimed the first style conveyed “emotional engagement with the prospective position.” Following is the paragraph he claimed contained this emotional content:

I would like to be considered for the Training Director Position. I have had over twenty years’ experience designing, developing, and delivering training programs at all levels of the organization. I have also designed needs assessments to determine organizational learning and developed programs to meet those needs. I look forward to hearing from you.

DeKay claims the one-paragraph letter was “intended to convey emotional engagement with the prospective position.” Really? I don’t see much emotional content in that paragraph.

I see much more emotional content — in fact I see a story — in the second type of cover letter the job-seeker sent. The story is in the first paragraph, quoted below; the other two paragraphs, in my opinion, contain standard cover-letter language, so I’m not including them here:

I am extremely interested in the training coordinator position. I was active in the training profession for years, but two years ago, I decided to enroll in law school. I am now at a position in my legal studies that I can attend part-time.

As it stands, this study shows in a limited way that job-seekers who accompany their resumes with cover letters are more likely to get interviews. I find it interesting that employers made no distinction between what I consider the storied cover letter and the non-storied example. I’d love to see a study aimed at the differences in so-called emotional content. I had focus-group members evaluate storied cover letters during my dissertation research, but they did not compare them to non-storied examples.

Both letters, in my opinion, also are flawed. The first one uses the phrase “I look forward to hearing from you” instead of taking a proactive stance that suggests the job-seeker will follow up with the employer. The second letter begs the question, will this applicant leave the position as training coordinator once she finishes law school?

Still the study suggests interesting possibilities for storied cover letters with emotional content. It also shows the importance of always including a cover letter when you send a resume.

The article appears in the December 2006 issue of Business Communication Quarterly and is titled “Expressing Emotion in Electronic Job Cover Letters.”

Q&A with a Story Guru: Lori Silverman, Part 3

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Q&A with Lori Silverman, Question 3

Q: What are some of the cautions you advise in carrying out the 5 story practices you describe?

  • how to find stories
  • how to dig into them to uncover hidden patterns and themes
  • how to select those stories that need to be reinforced
  • how to craft memorable stories
  • how to embody stories to positively affect attitudes, thoughts and behaviors.

A: Overall, there is a significant different between implementing story as a “tool” or “technique” and seeing it as a core competence for running a business that can get it significant returns on investment, especially in a recessionary economy. In order to embrace these five practices, you need to embrace the latter mindset rather than the former. Unfortunately, articles and books continue to be written on it as a tool and technique. To see the bigger picture means educating leaders on the possibilities of what can be and a broader scope of business application.

This is no different than what happened in the quality movement. In the mid-to late-’80’s, everyone wanted to learn statistical process control (SPC; today it would be Six Sigma or lean manufacturing or root cause analysis). Only when failures happened did organizations recognize there might be fuller, richer approaches to the subject that meant shifting quality to the way you do business. The challenge we have is that story has not taken off with the same fervor as quality did two decades ago so its evolution as a field has been slower. My concern is that instead of evolving, the field of story work will disappear as so many other management approaches have over the years.

Until organizations begin to implement these five practices as a holistic package, we will not have the data to truly detail best practices in these five areas. This assumes, however, that organizations are astute enough to put measurement systems in place to ascertain the value of story work usage.

Q&A with a Story Guru: Lori Silverman, Part 2

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Q&A with Lori Silverman, Question 2

Q: In your article “The Five Sides of Story”, that appeared in Communication World magazine in January/February 2007, you describe “five practices surrounding the use of stories that bring results:”

  • how to find stories
  • how to dig into them to uncover hidden patterns and themes
  • how to select those stories that need to be reinforced
  • how to craft memorable stories
  • how to embody stories to positively affect attitudes, thoughts and behaviors.

What are your thoughts today on these five practices and their utilization in organizations?

A: I frequently reference these topics in presentations to audiences of several hundred people across a variety of industries and organizations. Prior to delivering these talks, I always interview a minimum of five attendees. Most do not understand the difference between an example, case study, anecdote, etc. and a story. What it tells me is that organizations that think they are using stories really are not doing so. Even when I look online at story examples that several organizations make public, most are descriptions of situations or profiles of people or companies. As a result, Karen Dietz and I have crafted a piece that speaks to the distinctions between story and other forms of narrative called Narrative Forms.

(first article in left-hand column).

The second thing that stands out for me in these interviews is that few, if any individuals are cued into applications of story beyond storytelling — both the crafting and the oral tradition of delivering a story. So, while some organizational story practitioners may be working with clients on other types of story practices, organizations as a whole and their leadership are not consistently practicing them. Even within the industry of story use in organizations, I am now of the opinion that most practitioners have not grown their own learning in these other areas.

As a result, I believe the real power of story has yet to be realized in organizational settings.

Q&A with a Story Guru: Lori Silverman, Part 1

Three years ago when I was working on my dissertation, Lori Silverman did me the amazing kindness of sending me page proofs of her book, Wake Me Up When the Data Is Over: How Organizations Use Stories to Drive Results, so that I could use it in my research even before it was published. We have remained in contact since, and I look forward to meeting her someday. This Q&A with her will run over the next five days.

Bio: The following is an excerpt from the bio on Lori’s Web site, and the full bio can be read here:

It was in 1999 that Lori Silverman came to truly grasp the need to make story work conscious and purposeful rather than happenstance. The turning point was the night before a keynote talk to eleven hundred people in Seattle, Washington, which she planned to give without relying on visual aids.

Through feedback from a friend who heard her practice she suddenly realized that something needed to replace the props–stories that brought concepts and ideas from her book Critical Shift:The Future of Quality in Organizational Performance to life. Soon after, she simplified her talks and queried colleagues for tales to tell. No more brain overload for those sitting in the audience.

In her consulting, varied kinds of future stories entered her strategy work, and storytelling to facilitate organizational change and performance improvement became a thoughtful occurrence. Yet something was still missing. But Lori chose to go with the flow and let life take its course. It soon brought the opportunity to coauthor Stories Trainers Tell: 55 Ready-to-Use Stories to Make Training Stick. While interviewing trainers, storytellers, speakers, consultants, and business leaders for the book she stumbled onto more answers–and more questions that stimulated the current book, Wake Me Up When the Data Is Over: How Organizations Use Stories to Drive Results.


Q&A with Lori Silverman, Question 1:

Q: The book, Wake Me When the Data Is Over, has been out for just over two years, but organizational storytelling is evolving so rapidly that I would imagine you have already thought about changes for the next edition. What are the first things you’d change or add to the book for its first revision?

A: I have two reactions to this question.

First I’m not certain the field of story work in organizations has evolved since the book was written. The piece that is still missing for me as a strategist is story as an organizational core competency. I’ve yet to find an organization that has systematically thought about how story could be used in all its work processes, both internal and external to the enterprise. It’s my contention that until we change how we talk about this subject–and move from calling it “storytelling” which is a self-limiting term, to calling it “story work,” this broader context for integrating story throughout an organization will be hard pressed to occur.

Secondly, there are several things I’d do in the next edition.

  1. I’d reconnect with each interviewee and ask them to update me on their organization’s progress with story. There hasn’t been any longitudinal data on story use as far as I know.

  2. I’d add several chapters that time did not allow us to research fully. They’d include topics such as story use in a recessionary economy, sales, innovation, and mergers and acquisitions. As someone who once worked in the field of career development, I love the application of story to the job-search process that you, Katharine, present in your book, Tell Me About Yourself.

  3. I’d add the composite results across all 72 examples which are in the article, “The Five Sides of Story”, to the book’s content and update it with data from the new examples. In this article (which outlines the story use model presented at the end of the Wake Me Up book), it becomes evident that telling a story may not be as powerful as some other approaches such as evoking stories from others, listening to them in a specialized way, the symbolic embodiment of story, and finding ways to employ story triggers.

Best Books in Organizational Storytelling

Karen Dietz did such a great job formatting news of this blog entry by Thomas Clifford for Fast Company that I am simply duplicating her formatting.

The entry features the latest book by this week’s story guru, Lori Silverman, in which Dietz played a significant role. Clifford also lists six other books of interest to those interested in using story to improve organizations. There are a couple on the list that I’m not familiar with (thanks, Thomas, for turning me onto them), but I heartily agree with his recommendations. By the way, this entry was seven more books; you can see the original list of seven here (including my storytelling/job-search book).

7 More Books To Help Your Organization Become Better Storytellers

Fast Company BY FC Expert Blogger Thomas Clifford Mon Apr 20, 2009 at 3:56 PM

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“When facts become so widely available and instantly accessible, each one becomes less valuable. What begins to matter more is the ability to place these facts in context and to deliver them with emotional impact. And that is the essence of the aptitude of Story- context enriched by emotion.” Dan Pink, A Whole New Mind

If there’s one thing the social media “tsunami” has shown us it’s this: storytelling is far from dead.

Now that we can tell our stories to the world in an instant, it might be a good idea to learn some of the basics in crafting an interesting story.

So where do we begin learning to craft our personal stories and the stories about our organization?

This set of books is the second half of my favorite books on storytelling for personal and business use. Each one is unique and offers tremendous insights into the world of storytelling. If you missed the first set of books, you can find them in the previous post.

7 More Books to Help You and Your Organization Become Better Storytellers

1. Wake Me Up When the Data is Over: How Organizations Use Storytelling to Drive Results. Lori Silverman

Of all the 14 books listed, this one is the most comprehensive books on organizational storytelling. “Wake Me Up” gives the reader dozens of examples on how to discover, craft and increase the use of stories within an organization. The book is divided into three parts: how stories are being used, specific applications and finally, advice on integrating stories into specific business needs. It’s definitely worth reading several times as it’s packed with dozens of real-life examples covering just about every angle of storytelling.

2. A Little Less Conversation: Connecting with Customers in a Noisy World. Tom Asacker

3. Sandbox Wisdom: Revolutionize Your Brand with the Genius of Childhood. Tom Asacker

Confession time. I’m a huge fan of Tom’s books. While some may say these books don’t technically fall into the “storytelling” genre but more into the “marketing” arena, I’d quickly disagree. Tom magically weaves the concepts of brand loyalty, marketing, customer engagement and how we connect with people using the power of a simple story. Both books use fictional short stories that take us on a fun journey from “business as usual” to “business as it really should be.” Like magic, these fictional stories and conversations quietly weave new ways for us to think about how we might begin approaching our own business practices. Ah, the power of a great story.

4. The Story Factor: Inspiration, Influence, and Persuasion Through the Art of Storytelling. Annette Simmons

5. Whoever Tells The Best Story Wins: How to Use Your Own Stories to Communicate with Power and Impact. Annette Simmons

Not sure where to start in your story journey? Want to start using your own personal stories when networking with others? Think about starting out with Annette’s books. I really, really love the “The Story Factor.” It’s a perfect book for beginners to get their heads wrapped around the power and basic concepts of storytelling. Annette covers the six stories we need to learn to tell, what is a story, storytelling do’s and don’ts and several other important ideas behind telling stories.

6. Squirrel Inc.: A Fable of Leadership Through Storytelling. Stephen Denning

7. The Springboard: How Storytelling Ignites Action in Knowledge-Era Organizations. Stephen Denning

I think “Springboard” was the first book I ever bought on storytelling years ago. While Denning’s book is geared more for organizational storytelling, I enjoyed crafting my own springboard stories simply personal practice. “The Springboard” is another great place to start incorporating a single story into your personal or business life.

What, then, is a springboard story? Denning explains a springboard story this way: “…a tiny story- 29 words or 200 bytes- is less a vehicle for communication of large amounts of information and more a tiny fuse that ignites a new story in the listener’s minds, which establishes new connections and patterns in the listeners’ existing information, attitudes, and perceptions…the listeners generate a new story.” (pg. 82-83)

“Squirrel Inc.” offers quite a different take on the power of storytelling through a fable involving a cast of squirrels; yup, squirrels…and the story works like a charm! A must-read, for sure.

BONUS: Of course, don’t forget Seth Godin’s classic, All Marketers Are Liars: The Power of Telling Authentic Stories in a Low-Trust World.

Do you have your favorites? What books did I miss? Would love to hear from you. Share you comments here. If you enjoyed this post, be sure to hit the “Recommend This” button.

Veteran corporate filmmaker Thomas Clifford helps Fortune 100’s to non-profits who are stuck, frustrated, losing employees or market share because they can’t breathe life into their brand story. He believes remarkable organizations deserve remarkable films.

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3 New Structures for Storytelling in the Job Search

Recent encounters have provided me with new ideas about how to structure stories in the job search. As I sold copies of my book, Tell Me About Yourself, at the recent conference of the Career Management Alliance, career practitioners told me they recognized the value in job-seekers telling stories but that it’s hard for them to come up with ways to structure their stories. My book offers a number of structures, but I’m always looking for even more ways that job-seekers can build cohesive stories.

It’s always easiest to think about using these structures in stories that respond to job-interview questions. They can be used in resumes, cover letters, and other aspects of the job search, but doing so is trickier in those contexts, so let’s first apply them to interviewing.

  • In a much-retweeted blog entry Lesley Morgan wrote about a Storytelling Blueprint that she calls “a simplified outline of well-known mythologist Joseph Campbell’s the Hero’s Journey.”Morgan has titled this structure the Feel … Felt … Found Blueprint. In the table below, Morgan’s blueprint appears in the left column while a suggested adaptation for the job search is in the right column:

    How might you bring up a story like this? An effective approach would be to introduce this story during the phase of the interview when you are asking the interviewer questions. Ask a question such as, “What’s the greatest challenge your organization faces?” If you have a story about handling a similar challenge in a current or past job, you can use the Feel-Felt-Found Blueprint to structure your narrative.

    Would you really say to the interviewer, “I know how you feel?” Possibly. Take your cue from the emotional content of the interviewer’s story. For example, if the interviewer says the organization’s challenge sapped the morale of its employees, it might be appropriate to say, “I know how they felt.” If the challenge the interviewer describes lacks emotional content, you can simply skip the “feel/felt” words and say “I know what your organization is experiencing.” Then tell the story of how you handled an analogous situation.

  • At last month’s Golden Fleece Conference, Gerry Lantz talked about using the question “What’s at stake?” to think about story structure.In a job interview, use this question to build details of your story. As you are describing a problem you solved for a current or past employer, tell what was at stake — what would have happened if you hadn’t solved the problem.

    Here’s an example, a response to a question about how well the interviewee handles pressure, that truly shows what was at stake — the life of a person. If the candidate could handle pressure when the stakes are that high, he or she could likely handle in the job he or he was interviewing for:

    My past experience as an administrative coordinator required me to deal with many serious situations since I held emergency on-call duties as a supervisor. One example was when I was called by a resident assistant to deal with an attempted suicide on her residence-hall floor. The situation required that I think clearly and quickly in this life-and-death situation. I had to weigh the many tasks that needed to be completed. I had to assign RAs to call 911, make sure the paramedics could get into the locked building, while at the same time applying first aid, and ensuring that the rest of the residents on the floor were OK. I also had to make sure the privacy of the resident in need was respected. I basically prioritized and dealt with each task by its importance. I delegated responsibility to RAs for things that they were capable of handling because I could not physically be in many places at once. Once the resident was taken to the hospital, I handled the paperwork and followed up to make sure the staff members, residents, and the resident in need adjusted back to “normal” life. I know this is an extreme example not found in the financial consulting field; however, it shows just how well I can deal with tremendous pressure.

  • At the Career Management Alliance conference I just attended, I had the pleasure of hearing — for the second time — screenwriter Bill True of Minneapolis-based Sage Presence. The story-based aspects of True’s interview recommendations are not exactly new, but he frames and presents them in a fresh way.Part of the Sage Presence approach is that interviewees should tell stories that demonstrate how they were the catalyst for beneficial change. Otherwise, when searching their brains for interview responses, they will likely get lost in the sea of information that could be brought up in an interview.

    The structure that Sage presence recommends for stories to tell in interview is one in which actions occur that take people from a negative situation to a positive one. Then, the interviewee must identify the changes that he or she facilitated that illustrate benefits to the prospective employer. “The job-seeker’s past experience is today’s value,” True said.

    True also suggests thinking of your interview persona (and perhaps responses to individual interview questions) in terms of movie titles: “[name of interviewee] brings [description of benefit].”

Two Story Sites Get Enhancements, Revamps

Two sites I admire and have on my sidebar are undergoing improvements.

Kevin Cordi’s Storybox Project already has its own Web site, but now it has a Ning group, billed as a place to “Share your Story, Story Ideas, and learn more about the Story Box Project!”

Here’s more describing what the Storybox Project is about:

Share your stories by sending them to us so that we can place them in the international/national Story Boxes. These Story Boxes are shared with new audiences in places in and around the world. Hundreds and thousands of people will read them. A teacher may use the story to help their classroom. A storyteller may perform your story to a group of kids. We have had people published as a result of reading their story in the Story Box. A community organizer may share their story to help others value their community. A child may create their own world based on your imagination. We guarantee the story will travel and with each new place, new readers will discover your story.

The Story Box is designed to help share the global world of stories. The narrative either we make up or we live is worth sharing with others. No story is edited. We do ask that you mark it for kids /adults or both. It is simply placed in the Story Box. However, when you fill out the story form, people are encouraged to let you know where the story travels and what they did with it. Don’t be surprised to hear from others around the world about your story. Kids write the authors. Other writers share ideas. Your writing is part of the Global sharing experiences.

The other site undergoing big improvements is The Remembering Site founded by my new friend Sarah McCue. The site is getting a redesign, slated for around Mother’s Day. Here’s what the site is about:

And here’s a tiny thumbnail glimpse of what the redesign will look like:

Speaking of Mother’s Day, SMITH Mag is teaming up with truuconfessions and Postcards from Yo Momma for a new six-word challenge about all things Mom. Truuconfessions, which just released the book, True Mom Confessions: Real Moms Get Real, will choose the best six-word story about parenting; the editors of Postcards from Yo Momma will award the prize for the best six-word story about your relationship with your mother. Both winners will get signed copies of the three books published by the sites, plus artistic validation and Internet fame. Three runners-up will win one book of their choice. The contest ends on May 10, Mother’s Day.

Q&A with a Story Guru: Thaler Pekar, Part 5

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Q&A with Thaler Pekar, Question 5:

Q: Your background includes research in cognitive linguistics, brain imaging, and persuasive communications. In your article, “Storytelling is Only Half the Story,” you note that many leaders seek communication techniques “to inspire an audience and move people to action.” How does storytelling fit into that objective?

A: I prefer story sharing, not storytelling. Leaders must share their stories so as to evoke stories in their listener’s minds and guide them toward personal understanding of the issue and need for action. It’s a two-way, 2.0, conversation.

Sharing a personal story helps establish trust with your listener, and evoking a story in your listener’s mind helps make your information personally relevant. These are the steps through which any persuasive communicator must move in order to entice their listener to take action.

By evoking a personal story, your listener is also able to recognize their part in the solution you are proposing. Once your listener is personally engaged, they are more likely to hear and process your message, and to take the action you wish them to take.

My easy-to-remember and even easier-to-apply approach to persuasive communications is called Heart, Head & Hand™.

Heart, Head, & Hand can be used by leaders to establish trust with their audience. First, I recommend that speakers share a story that their listeners are likely to find emotionally relevant, often by sharing a personal anecdote. In this way, leaders connect with their listener’s heart.

Only then can reasons, data, and a rationale for the leader’s message be provided. Only after connecting with the listener’s heart should leaders seek to connect to the listener’s head. [Steven Denning has profound things to say about “Reinforcing with Reasons” in The Secret Language of Leadership.]

Then, true leaders give the audience something to do — they put something in their hand and invite them to be part of the solution.

Both “Storytelling is Only Half the Story,” and “Heart, Head & Hand: The Science of Communication” can be found on the Tools page of my web site.

Q&A with a Story Guru: Thaler Pekar, Part 4

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Q&A with Thaler Pekar, Question 4:

Q: What future aspirations do you personally have for your own story work? What would you like to do in the story world that you haven’t yet done?

A: I am working on joint programs that encourage the elicitation, development, and sustained sharing of stories among charitable foundations and the recipients of their funding. When non-profit organizations discover how to find, refine, and share the stories about their success and impact, clients, donors, staff, and entire communities benefit. When philanthropists discover the same skill set, along with developing a solid story of their vision for a better future, they are able to more efficiently and effectively solicit and fund appropriate programs.

In the philanthropic world, I often hear from foundation program officers that they have trouble obtaining stories about the work of their grantees and the impact of their investments. Likewise, the grantees often say that funders seek only quantitative data, or, when they do come to them for stories about their work, the funders seek highly specific stories about impact (and most often under tight deadlines). In the quest to gather data in an increasingly competitive marketplace, the qualitative stories that enable understanding of, and engagement with, the data are often being quashed.

I also hear from many organizational leaders that they have stories — they can simply never access them when they need them. To that end, I am developing a set of best practices for banking and accessing stories, using existing technologies. This would enable organizations to add written, verbal, and recorded stories to a story bank. It will not be heavily dependent on the quality of the input information, but it will be accessible by subject, character, value, and potential application, among other things. I’ll be previewing this program for sustainable story sharing at Fundraising Day New York this June [2009].